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am o problema sa botezam sau nu
07.09.2007 10:23
am o problema sa botezam sau nu
peach81
Sotului meu i-a murit bunica acum 3 luni, la 6 saptamani i-a murit si un unchi. Saptamana trecuta ne-au sunat niste prieteni, foarte disperati ca i-au lasat nasii de botez ai fetitei balta si chiar nu are cine sa le boteze. Pentru ca noi consideram botezul o mare pomana si pt ca avem pacate destule am acceptat imediat. NUmai ca la doua zile, sotul meu mi-a zis ca nu ar vrea sa boteze, trantindu-mi un : daca murea bunica ta, cum era??? Bine omule si de ce nu ai zis atunci? si m-a lasat cu gura cascata. Acum nici eu nu am sa-i las balta. am sa merg la un preot sa intreb numai ca pana ajung ca sunt cam ocupata, stie vreo mamica daca gresim?? ca nu avem de gand sa dansam. Iar daca popa zice ca gresesc o sa ii pun pe parintii mei sa boteze, ca la mine promisiunea e promisiune. Mentionez ca sotul meu nu tine doliu si sper sa nu ma judecati dar m-a cam enervat, pt ca atat cat a trait bunica lui nu s-a dus sa o vada iar acum .... Sa ma ierte Dumnezeu!!dar sunt cam in incurcatura
07.09.2007 10:34
rapunzel
Intreaba preotul - cred ca asa e cel mai corect, insa pun pariu ca iti va spune ca nu este nici o problema.
Nu vreau sa par insensibila, insa viata merge inainte; in cazul vostru ati putea anula, intr-adevar, insa daca vi se nastea voua un copil tocmai in perioada de doliu? Ca atunci nu mai aveai de ales...
Insa s-ar putea ca sotul tau sa nu aiba dispozitia sufleteasca necesara pentru a participa la slujba si la petrecere; cred ca de-asta te-a intrebat "cum era daca murea bunica ta". Intii discuta cu el, lamuriti lucrurile si apoi hotariti.
Sa fii nashul unui copil mi se pare o misiune importanta, este important sa o faci cu toata inima, chiar daca cu timpul relatiile dintre nashi si fini se mai deterioreaza. Sa nu te superi pe mine, dar eu nu am inteles motivatia ta, cu "avem destule pacate"; cind faci asta, o faci pentru copil, nu pentru tine.

07.09.2007 2:06
peach81
am facut un chiuretaj( sper ca asa se scrie) de curand si am promis ca am sa botez cati copii voi putea. Dar asta e alta problema. e ca si cum m-ar ajuta sa trec peste .... Din cauza asta am spus pacate avem destule. Dar nu este motivatia principala, in primul rand vreau sa ii ajut ,in al doilea rand mie imi plac copii si pe toti pe care i-am botezat i-am considerat copii mei.
10.09.2007 9:40
danniela
Locatie: Africa
peach, poate ca trebuie sa vorbesti cu sotul tau si sa-i explici ca nici tu nu iei botezul ca pe o petrecere pentru voi doi, ci numai ca pe o facere de bine, ca vrei sa ajuti acei parinti si ca vrei sa faci o fapta buna. Acum nu e musai si sa petreceti, si sa uitati ca sunteti in doliu. Cand sora mea cea mica a avut nunta, celei mari i-a murit soacra, iar cumnatul meu caruia ii murise mama, a trebuit sa tina loc de socru mic in locul tatalui meu, nu a dansat, dar a incercat in anumita limita sa arate ca participa la nunta.
10.09.2007 9:55
furnicutza26
Locatie: Norvegia
si eu sunt de aceeasi parere cu daniela, sa ii explici sotului ca tu asa simti, ca vrei sa botezi acel copil, fiindca ai motivele pe care le ai... si nu neaparat pentru petrecere.. sunt sigura ca preotul va zice ca nu e nici o problema...
si mai ales daca ai apucat sa promiti... parca mi se pare nu stiu cum sa ii suni sa le zici, stiti, nu mai putem....

aici in norvegia ei nu tin la chestiile astea ca la noi in romania... insa cu cateva zile inaintea cununiei noastre religioase (care a avut loc in romania), a murit fratele soacrei mele... eu am aflat ineinteles, insa soacra mea, sora ei, si celilalti i-au zis sotului meu sa nu ne spuna.. mie si alor mei,... ca sa nu ne facem probeleme pentru ei, griji etc... ca ei vor veni la nunta oricum, fiindca au promis.
eu una am apreciat foarte mult atitudinea lor, fiindca s-au deranjat totusi din norvegia pana in romania pt nunta...
sunt sigura ca asa vor aprecia si finii... poti sa le explici care e situatia, cu bunica si cu doliul si sunt sigura ca si ei vor aprecia gestul vostru...

tie ti se cere cam multa diplomatie aicea, dar cred ca o duci tu la capat!

10.09.2007 11:14
rdolyy
Locatie: IASI
Doamne si sotul tau....Poate isi revine totusi si spune-i motivatia,ca si din cauza lui ai facut avort,nu? nervos si e foarte bine sa botezi,sa mergi si la preot sa te spovedesti,si ori de cate ori ai ocazia mai imbraca cate-un copil mai sarac,i-ai hainute sau ce mai ramane de la al tau,sa nu uiti asta.

Doamne Ajuta!sper sa botezati.

10.09.2007 1:49
peach81
Va multumesc mult de tot. m-am tot uitat zilele astea sa vad : Doamne oare o sa imi scrie cineva? Intelege cineva problema asta a mea. Stiti intr-un timp ma gandeam ca sunt insensibila la problema sotului meu( stiu ca il doare, ca doar a fost bunica lui) dar ce sa fac? Trebuie sa recunosc ca viata merge inainte si copilul asta nu are nici o vina. POate asa a vrut Dumnezeu ce sa zic?
Oricum eu m-am pregatit, i-am cumparat de toate. Ca si cum as fi cumparat pt fata mea. Va multumesc din suflet ca mi-ati raspuns.

10.09.2007 2:56
wildrose
Locatie: BotoÅŸani
Peach eu as zice sa botezati...tatal sotului meu a murit chiar inainte de botezul baiatului...si noi am botezat sambata si inmormantarea a fost marti...va dati seama ce botez a fost, dar soacra mea a zis sa nu amanam ca asteapta copilul...viata merge inainte chiar daca este greu...Succes si sper sa botezati!
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