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Teodora29




Locatie: France
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Elouan: 14 ani, 5 luni

06.11.2009 8:47     citat 

cu asta nu-s de acord, cu resemnarea
pentru ca o relatie se construieste de la nastere
si-s enervata cind citesc pe aici pe forum despte tati care abia indraznesc sa isi atinga odraslele, daramite sa le ia in brate
al meu mi l-a luat in sala de nasteri, sa-l simta si el rad si mi s-a parut asa normal; a avt si el perioade de recul (oboseala, stres etc), dar isi revenea repede
cum ziceam, o relatie copil-parinte se construieste, si inca de la inceput...de ce un barbat nu-si poate tine copilul in brate>? de ce nu-i poate schimba un scutec>? de ce nu-i poate spune o poveste seara? e o mare minciuna, caci un tata e la fel de capabil ca si mine, mama, sa se ocupe de copil
doar sa vrea, doar sa fie lasat (la nevoie si impins rad ) sa o faca

ah, si inca ceva: eu am avut o perioada de egoism feroce, in care efectiv, si mie mi se parea ba ca nu-l tine bine, ba ca nu il sterge bine, ba ca-l uda nu-stiu-cum, ba ca-i face nu-stiu-ce
si l-am frustrat, si l-am suparat (noroc ca el suporta usor rad ) cu toate replicile mele...pina intr-un moment in care am reusit sa ii acord deplina incredere
si-asa am invatat de la el, eu care eram mereu vis-à-vis de prunc in acea stare de "ce sa-i fac, ce sa-i dau"
am invatat ca tacerea-i graitoare, ca poti linisti un bebe doar tinindu-l bine in brate si respirind (fara vorbaraia noastra de femei), ca linistea emana si din corp, si din privire si ca bebe, burete cum e, le absoarbe si se simte deodata bine


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Locatie: Villeneuve St Denis
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Ben: 13 ani, 5 luni

06.11.2009 10:49     citat 

Nu te resemna prea mult ca ajungeti ca noi.
Tac'so nu sta singur cu baiatul lui decat atunci cand il suie in masina sa-l duca in vizita la bunica.


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e-alice




Locatie: ploiesti
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Vlad Cristian: 11 ani, 8 luni
Paul: 8 ani, 7 luni

07.11.2009 9:02     citat 

trist trist
mi se pare ca nu face nimic pt. bebe (pe plan afectiv) si de multe ori ma intreb daca asa e sau mi se pare doar mie. De iubit stiu ca il iubeste, de luat in brate il ia mereu, de ajutat la schmbat si la baitza e acolo, doar ca daca incepe sa planga la el in brate, si bb o face mereu, mi-l paseaza repede si se si bosumfla ca de ce plange numai la el.... ochi peste cap


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manuti




Locatie: bucuresti

07.11.2009 9:51   PENTRU COLICI la bebelusi  citat 

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elizamam




Locatie: Cluj Napoca
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Eliza: 15 ani, 1 luna
Stefan: 13 ani, 4 luni

12.11.2009 12:40     citat 

e-alice, e dureros pentru multi adulti plansul bebelusului... pana-l inveti sa-l consoleze el, intelege-l
E o autoare Aletha Solter care zice cum bebelusii plang ca sa elimine stresul si cum e bine sa acceptam, consolam in brate plansul asta, dar cumva linistiti in intrior... ei, taticii cam invata de la noi chestia asta. Bine macar ca mamica are o asemenea disponbilitate.
Pupici!


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