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19.04.2013 10:56   casnicia mea nu mai merge  citat 

Am o sotie perfectionista care se enerveaza ca nu fac lucrurile cum trebuie. Pentru orice gresala sunt apostrofat cu apelative -bou, magar,prost etc.
Suntem impreuna de 13 ani si la inceput nu a fost asa.
Recunosc ca m-am inchis in mine si nu mai comunic cu ea sentimente ci doar informatii,
Daca o intreb de ce ma jigneste cin fac cea mai mica greseala zice ca sunt prea sensibil.
Avem un baiat de 13 ani si din cauza lui am ramas in aceasta casnicie care ma adus la depresie.
Pote cineva sevintreaba ce greseli fac ei bine daca uit o usa deschisa sau cade o frimitura pe jos ori trec cu masina usor printr-o groapa. Imediat urmeaza cearta.
Ar mai fi multe de spus dar este 12 noaptea si merg la somn. Nu dorm cu sotia ci cu baiatul.
El sa atasat de mine si vrea sa dorm cu el.


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Locatie: Norvegia
Copii
Lucasosaurus: 15 ani
Pufarina: 10 ani, 10 luni

20.04.2013 2:04     citat 

Perfectioniste sau nu, toate femeile cand sar asa la cearta cu barbatu din orice inseamna ca sint foarte nervoase din alta cauza. ea nu se cearta cu tine din cauza firimiturii ori a gropii ci pentru ca nervii ei sint intinsi si ii sare tandara din orice.
daca tii la casnicia asta incearca sa afli adevarata cauza si vezi daca se poate repara ceva.
poate fi orice - situatia financiara a familiei, e nefericita ori persecutata la servici, starea sanatatii, altcineva din familie care o calca pe bataturi si ea crede ca e vina ta, chiar viata sexuala.. poate fi chiar faptul ca tu esti inchis in tine si ea se simte singura si nebagata in seama...
astea sint doar exemple, poate fi orice, tu trebuie sa descoperi, dar cel mai sigur e sa o intrebi pe ea ce o nemultumeste cu adevarat....


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20.04.2013 4:21     citat 

Are situatia financiara foarte buna. Lucram impreuna la un solar de legume. Este sanatoasa si este o femeie care spune ca sentimentele nu sunt bune si in viata este bine sa nu prea le ai. Este o sangvina care munceste daca s-ar putea si noaptea. In ce priveste viata sexuala este grabita s itii da impresia ca este o pierdere de timp. Formula ei preferata este nu avem timp.
Oful ei cel mare este ca nu vad ca ea toate amanuntele.
Deasemenea se enerveaza cind stai pur si simplu. Spune ca tot timpul trebuie sa muncesti. Privitul la tv il considera o mare pierdere de timp. Am incercat de multe ori sa-i fac pe plac dar pur si simplu nu reusesc deoarece mereu gaseste cite un nod in papura.
Daca incerc sa o sarut sau sa o imbratisez are reactia unei adolescente care este sarutata de cel mai urit coleg din clasa.
Am observat intre parintii ei o relatie foarte rece. Incep sa ma mir si ma intreb cum au facut 4 copii pentru ca mai tot timpul se cearta. Este clar ca a crescut intr-o familie in care sentimentele nu si-au avut locul


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Locatie: Mures
Copii
Didi: 14 ani, 11 luni
Andu: 12 ani, 10 luni

22.04.2013 4:53     citat 

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Are situatia financiara foarte buna.
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Neeee, la tot ce spui tu undeva s-a rupt legatura intre voi .... In casa voastra esti tu (separat), sotia(separat) si copilul (pentru amandoi). In momentul in care cineva te intreaba te probleme materiale si spui cum ai spus tu mai sus ... arata o problema. Voi nu sunteti impreuna, esti tu si ea cu o viata comuna insa in acelasi timp separata (nu sunt clara dar eu asa va vad). Orice copil isi vede ca exemplu familia in care a crescut, faptul ca parintii ei sunt reci ... asta poate fi doar oficial (persoanele cu o anumita varsta stie ca intimitatile se tin pentru dormitor), dar tu ce ai facut sa ii arati ca viata de familist este si altfel?? Pentru ea poate fi absolut normal sa nu-ti arati sentimentele, insa dincolo de munca in comun ce a insemnat viata voastra? Nu trebuie sa raspunzi, doar sa te gandesti! I-ai aratat ca poate fi apreciata, iubita si in public (prin cuvinte, priviri, semne, etc) si neoficial in dormitor? Discutiile particulare conteaza mult, sustinerea ta in tot ce face ea si plus inca multe altele ... na ca exemplu, cand ea e obosita te-ai oferit sa-i faci masaj asa cum poti tu chiar daca si tu erai obosit? Incearca sa ii arati cat o iubesti si iubeste-ti copilul fara limite! Arata-i asta prin gesturi minore (flori pe masa, cadouri mici preferabil facute impreuna cu copilul cand ai putin timp) si vei gasi calea sa va fie bine. Insa daca incepi cu diverse intrebari ... se poate ca tu deja sa ai alte ganduri, chiar daca nu le recunosti inca. Chiar daca nu vrea sa recunoasca sentimente, fara ele nu aveati copilul! Deci? Au trecut ani, insa nu totul este pierdut cu rabdare si suferinta daca se vrea si o cale se va arata!


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Andreea: 19 ani, 5 luni

19.07.2013 1:02     citat 

Interesanta discutie.
Ce profund gindesti Cristina, sa stii ca multi au de invatat din discutia asta, incluziv eu...
Trebuie sa avem rabdarea de a ne asculta reciproc, trebuie sa mai lasam si de la noi...
Mda, sunt multe de spus...


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27.04.2021 5:24     citat 

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27.07.2021 8:44     citat 

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24.09.2021 5:18     citat 

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