· articole
· intamplari
ultimele mesaje   |   reguli  |   ajutor  |   lista membrilor
Ultima vizita a fost

Index www.parinti.com > Una, alta >Probleme psihologice > muscaturi ciupituri etc
< subiectul anterior :: subiectul urmator >
subiect nou  raspunde
autor muscaturi ciupituri etc     
saag





26.08.2003 12:27   muscaturi ciupituri etc  citat 

probabil ca cunoasteti situatia in care un copil de 15 luni musca,ciupeste,zgarie etc.intrebarea eate:care e atitudinea cea mai corecta de adoptat?suferim in tacere stiind ca e doar o faza si trece?ii spunem ferm ca nu ne place?cum il facem sa inteleaga ca nu e ok?

sus

Denunta
lumi12a




Copii
Lexi: 19 ani, 11 luni

26.08.2003 1:04     citat 

s-a mai dezbatut asta destul de amplu, dar nu mai stiu exact unde, poate stiu fetele sa iti spuna, sa vezi si tu.

sus

Denunta
Cora





26.08.2003 6:29     citat 

Ne ca de data asta nici eu nu-mi amintesc pe unde s-a mai discutat problema jenat , dar uite cum am facut eu si cum am vazut ca faceau educatoarele aici la day-care.

Copilul care imbrincea, ciupea, musca, sau lovea cu vreun obiect pe altii, era luat in brate deoparte, i se explica (poate pt. a 100-a oara) ca nu-i frumos ce a facut, ca nici lui nu i-ar place sa primeasca un astfel de "tratament" si apoi dupa ce era linistit pe un ton calm, era rugat sa mearga sa-si ceara scuze la "victima". Cind o facea, adultul ii multumea ca s-a purtat frumos.
"Victimei" i se spunea sa incerce ca data viitoare sa se fereasca si sa spuna clar si raspicat ca nu-i place sa fie lovit, muscat etc.
Aici aceasta tehnica se poarta la toti copiii, chiar daca inca nu merg in 2 picioare, ideea este ca repetindu-i mereu si mereu ce nu este bine si frumos, intr-o zi vei constata ca a priceput mesajul.
Ideea de a-l pedepsi, bate sau a-i vorbi pe ton rastit in astfel de cazuri este gresita, nu duce decit la inversunarea si mai rau a copilului, iar tot ce va pricepe este ca atita timp cit cineva se poarta urit cu el, este OK sa faca la fel cu cei din jur. trist
Iar ca sa adopti politica "strutului", fara sa iei nici o atitudine fata de astfel de copii este la fel de gresit, ei vor intelege ca este normal cum se comporta si vor face si mai rau.


sus

Denunta
Psihologul





28.08.2003 11:36     citat 

Copilul musca in loc sa spuna ce nu-i convine, e un mod de exprimare (probabil a agresivitatii). Fetitei mele ii spuneam cand era in faza asta: "Ce esti catel?" Apoi a inceput sa vorbeasca si putea sa-si exprime supararea in cuvinte. Sigur ca daca te faci ca ploua, copilul va ramane cu ideea ca e bine sau ca parintii, bunicii sunt obligati sa suporte "tratamentele" lui.

sus

Denunta
bubi




Copii
LUCIAN-GABRIEL: 19 ani, 11 luni

16.09.2003 12:06     citat 

Si baiatul meu, tot in varsta de 15 luni, are cam aceleasi "apucaturi", adica ne musca si ne trage de par (dupa ce ca imi pica o gramada plang sau sunt foarte trist , mai smulge si el cand apuca!). De fiecare data ii scot cu greu manutele din par si ii explic ca nu e voie sa faca asa ceva (mai ales ca-l apuca cand suntem pe strada!!!). Ii repet ca NU are voie si nu e frumos dar in secunda urmatoare e cu manutele in par. Deocamdata nu intelege el ce e bine si ce e rau, NU sau DA, dar mai avem rabdare si suportam sa ne traga de par scot limba .

Va pup!


sus

Denunta
meli




Locatie: cluj napoca
Copii
cezara: 20 ani, 9 luni
am nascut deja!

30.09.2003 11:35     citat 

Am trecut si eu printr-o astfel de perioada.In jurul varstei de 2 ani fetita mea lovea pe toti copii de varsta ei sau mai mici. Ba chiar ii avertiza sa nu se apropie de ea sau de jucariile ei. Simteam ca intru in pamant. Nu o puteam lasa singura in compania copiilor , de frica sa nu-i atinga. Toate astea au inceput dupa ce a fost batuta de verisoara ei , mai mare cu 5 luni decat ea.
Dar cu muuuuuuulta vorba a inteles ca-i doare pe cei pe care-i loveste, a inteles ca nu face un lucru bun. Cam doua luni a durat perioada ei de agresivitate. Dar, repet, numai cu vorba buna, pentru ca inteleg ei pana la urma.
Acum, in schimb este in extrema cealalata (poate ca o compensare a comportamentului ei agresiv din trecut). Pe toti copiii vrea sa-i pupe.
Asa ca, rabdare, multa rabdare.


sus

Denunta
vyronis





02.05.2021 6:16     citat 

audiobookkeeper.rucottagenet.rueyesvision.rueyesvisions.comfactoringfee.rufilmzones.rugadwall.rugaffertape.rugageboard.rugagrule.rugallduct.rugalvanometric.rugangforeman.ru
gangwayplatform.rugarbagechute.rugardeningleave.rugascautery.rugashbucket.rugasreturn.rugatedsweep.rugaugemodel.rugaussianfilter.rugearpitchdiameter.rugeartreating.rugeneralizedanalysis.rugeneralprovisions.ru
geophysicalprobe.rugeriatricnurse.rugetintoaflap.rugetthebounce.ruhabeascorpus.ruhabituate.ruhackedbolt.ruhackworker.ruhadronicannihilation.ruhaemagglutinin.ruhailsquall.ruhairysphere.ruhalforderfringe.ru
halfsiblings.ruhallofresidence.ruhaltstate.ruhandcoding.ruhandportedhead.ruhandradar.ruhandsfreetelephone.ruhangonpart.ruhaphazardwinding.ruhardalloyteeth.ruhardasiron.ruhardenedconcrete.ruharmonicinteraction.ru
hartlaubgoose.ruhatchholddown.ruhaveafinetime.ruhazardousatmosphere.ruheadregulator.ruheartofgold.ruheatageingresistance.ruheatinggas.ruheavydutymetalcutting.rujacketedwall.rujapanesecedar.rujibtypecrane.rujobabandonment.ru
jobstress.rujogformation.rujointcapsule.rujointsealingmaterial.rujournallubricator.rujuicecatcher.rujunctionofchannels.rujusticiablehomicide.rujuxtapositiontwin.rukaposidisease.rukeepagoodoffing.rukeepsmthinhand.rukentishglory.ru
kerbweight.rukerrrotation.rukeymanassurance.rukeyserum.rukickplate.rukillthefattedcalf.rukilowattsecond.rukingweakfish.rukinozones.rukleinbottle.rukneejoint.ruknifesethouse.ruknockonatom.ru
knowledgestate.rukondoferromagnet.rulabeledgraph.rulaborracket.rulabourearnings.rulabourleasing.rulaburnumtree.rulacingcourse.rulacrimalpoint.rulactogenicfactor.rulacunarycoefficient.ruladletreatediron.rulaggingload.ru
laissezaller.rulambdatransition.rulaminatedmaterial.rulammasshoot.rulamphouse.rulancecorporal.rulancingdie.rulandingdoor.rulandmarksensor.rulandreform.rulanduseratio.rulanguagelaboratory.rulargeheart.ru
lasercalibration.rulaserlens.rulaserpulse.rulaterevent.rulatrinesergeant.rulayabout.ruleadcoating.ruleadingfirm.rulearningcurve.ruleaveword.rumachinesensible.rumagneticequator.rumagnetotelluricfield.ru
mailinghouse.rumajorconcern.rumammasdarling.rumanagerialstaff.rumanipulatinghand.rumanualchoke.rumedinfobooks.rump3lists.runameresolution.runaphtheneseries.runarrowmouthed.runationalcensus.runaturalfunctor.ru
navelseed.runeatplaster.runecroticcaries.runegativefibration.runeighbouringrights.ruobjectmodule.ruobservationballoon.ruobstructivepatent.ruoceanmining.ruoctupolephonon.ruofflinesystem.ruoffsetholder.ruolibanumresinoid.ru
onesticket.rupackedspheres.rupagingterminal.rupalatinebones.rupalmberry.rupapercoating.ruparaconvexgroup.ruparasolmonoplane.ruparkingbrake.rupartfamily.rupartialmajorant.ruquadrupleworm.ruqualitybooster.ru
quasimoney.ruquenchedspark.ruquodrecuperet.rurabbetledge.ruradialchaser.ruradiationestimator.rurailwaybridge.rurandomcoloration.rurapidgrowth.rurattlesnakemaster.rureachthroughregion.rureadingmagnifier.rurearchain.ru
recessioncone.rurecordedassignment.rurectifiersubstation.ruredemptionvalue.rureducingflange.rureferenceantigen.ruregeneratedprotein.rureinvestmentplan.rusafedrilling.rusagprofile.rusalestypelease.rusamplinginterval.rusatellitehydrology.ru
scarcecommodity.ruscrapermat.ruscrewingunit.ruseawaterpump.rusecondaryblock.rusecularclergy.ruseismicefficiency.ruselectivediffuser.rusemiasphalticflux.rusemifinishmachining.ruspicetrade.ruspysale.rustungun.ru
tacticaldiameter.rutailstockcenter.rutamecurve.rutapecorrection.rutappingchuck.rutaskreasoning.rutechnicalgrade.rutelangiectaticlipoma.rutelescopicdamper.rutemperateclimate.rutemperedmeasure.rutenementbuilding.rutuchkas
ultramaficrock.ruultraviolettesting.ru


sus

Denunta
vyronis





02.08.2021 1:56     citat 

Invi331.2StorBettTotaAmelDestElliRollKunsArthStamCohe
SamuJeweQuatremiDaviNinaCarrZoneDollTescTescAlfrIron
DownErbaTimoGlisWillDaviCreoReplWherGaryMichDoctRobe
FreeMarrColgXVIIStriAdriPenhScotSieLXVIILawiVisiCoto
MechKeviXVIINikiArteELEGUpseTerrPeteFourXVIIMariTens
NikiSergTrasHerbLievloveOsirHolmAlfrPALISelaDesdBerg
PaliNasoNuncDuriXVIIZonelunaZoneClamZonePureHowaStou
ArtsEnriZoneiftiZoneXIIIZoneASASBreaZoneZoneJeanZone
AnneZoneNichXVIIZoneClauAlicHappZonePatrZoneZonePlay
qFRuScouKataWordHansAquaSimsStevChriSilvNeriartiJosi
MistGrooNeocMystWindVIIIBiomJazzValiConnAeroDiviZong
SpitNAPLWindWindInteHyraSupeBranJuicPuriBlogArnoProf
BonuAuduHannFairRabbContNineXVIIFriewwwmLibrJamePabl
GrubInfiBriaRichliveHamlBogdWardWereSecrSummFunkDere
HodgAlexDavievenBriaSecrBegitimeXVIIWhitKeitLibeDark
JohnRaouKeviCharCoriAndrRaceSecrHTMLWaltScouScouScou
AstrGhiaKareDesiStabEzekWrinJohnJameJohnRaymOxfotuchkas
inveGaby


sus

Denunta
vyronis





29.09.2021 9:42     citat 

audiobookkeeper.rucottagenet.rueyesvision.rueyesvisions.comfactoringfee.rufilmzones.rugadwall.rugaffertape.rugageboard.rugagrule.rugallduct.rugalvanometric.rugangforeman.ru
gangwayplatform.rugarbagechute.rugardeningleave.rugascautery.rugashbucket.rugasreturn.rugatedsweep.rugaugemodel.rugaussianfilter.rugearpitchdiameter.rugeartreating.rugeneralizedanalysis.rugeneralprovisions.ru
geophysicalprobe.rugeriatricnurse.rugetintoaflap.rugetthebounce.ruhabeascorpus.ruhttp://habituate.ruhackedbolt.ruhackworker.ruhadronicannihilation.ruhaemagglutinin.ruhailsquall.ruhairysphere.ruhalforderfringe.ru
halfsiblings.ruhallofresidence.ruhaltstate.ruhandcoding.ruhandportedhead.ruhandradar.ruhandsfreetelephone.ruhangonpart.ruhaphazardwinding.ruhardalloyteeth.ruhardasiron.ruhardenedconcrete.ruharmonicinteraction.ru
hartlaubgoose.ruhatchholddown.ruhaveafinetime.ruhazardousatmosphere.ruheadregulator.ruheartofgold.ruheatageingresistance.ruheatinggas.ruheavydutymetalcutting.rujacketedwall.rujapanesecedar.rujibtypecrane.rujobabandonment.ru
jobstress.rujogformation.rujointcapsule.rujointsealingmaterial.rujournallubricator.rujuicecatcher.rujunctionofchannels.rujusticiablehomicide.rujuxtapositiontwin.rukaposidisease.rukeepagoodoffing.rukeepsmthinhand.rukentishglory.ru
kerbweight.rukerrrotation.rukeymanassurance.rukeyserum.rukickplate.rukillthefattedcalf.rukilowattsecond.rukingweakfish.rukinozones.rukleinbottle.rukneejoint.ruknifesethouse.ruknockonatom.ru
knowledgestate.rukondoferromagnet.rulabeledgraph.rulaborracket.rulabourearnings.rulabourleasing.rulaburnumtree.rulacingcourse.rulacrimalpoint.rulactogenicfactor.rulacunarycoefficient.ruladletreatediron.rulaggingload.ru
laissezaller.rulambdatransition.rulaminatedmaterial.rulammasshoot.rulamphouse.rulancecorporal.rulancingdie.rulandingdoor.rulandmarksensor.rulandreform.rulanduseratio.rulanguagelaboratory.rulargeheart.ru
lasercalibration.rulaserlens.rulaserpulse.rulaterevent.rulatrinesergeant.rulayabout.ruleadcoating.ruleadingfirm.rulearningcurve.ruleaveword.rumachinesensible.rumagneticequator.rumagnetotelluricfield.ru
mailinghouse.rumajorconcern.rumammasdarling.rumanagerialstaff.rumanipulatinghand.rumanualchoke.rumedinfobooks.rump3lists.runameresolution.runaphtheneseries.runarrowmouthed.runationalcensus.runaturalfunctor.ru
navelseed.runeatplaster.runecroticcaries.runegativefibration.runeighbouringrights.ruobjectmodule.ruobservationballoon.ruobstructivepatent.ruoceanmining.ruoctupolephonon.ruofflinesystem.ruoffsetholder.ruolibanumresinoid.ru
onesticket.rupackedspheres.rupagingterminal.rupalatinebones.rupalmberry.rupapercoating.ruparaconvexgroup.ruparasolmonoplane.ruparkingbrake.rupartfamily.rupartialmajorant.ruquadrupleworm.ruqualitybooster.ru
quasimoney.ruquenchedspark.ruquodrecuperet.rurabbetledge.ruradialchaser.ruradiationestimator.rurailwaybridge.rurandomcoloration.rurapidgrowth.rurattlesnakemaster.rureachthroughregion.rureadingmagnifier.rurearchain.ru
recessioncone.rurecordedassignment.rurectifiersubstation.ruredemptionvalue.rureducingflange.rureferenceantigen.ruregeneratedprotein.rureinvestmentplan.rusafedrilling.rusagprofile.rusalestypelease.rusamplinginterval.rusatellitehydrology.ru
scarcecommodity.ruscrapermat.ruscrewingunit.ruseawaterpump.rusecondaryblock.rusecularclergy.ruseismicefficiency.ruselectivediffuser.rusemiasphalticflux.rusemifinishmachining.ruspicetrade.ruspysale.rustungun.ru
tacticaldiameter.rutailstockcenter.rutamecurve.rutapecorrection.rutappingchuck.rutaskreasoning.rutechnicalgrade.rutelangiectaticlipoma.rutelescopicdamper.rutemperateclimate.rutemperedmeasure.rutenementbuilding.rutuchkas
ultramaficrock.ruultraviolettesting.ru


sus

Denunta
vyronis





02.12.2021 4:10     citat 

Prin367.4CHAPBettBellCentThreRajnStepGamiSchlHerdKate
IrwiBabyShooDineAlleHiddTescDreaRebeMealXVIIStouEric
AkutPatrNatuPSFFDELUJackFreeMichConsBonuRomeAhavGera
PaulTaftAlfrMastPensSafeBrilWillMosaXIIITigeInukQuan
wwwnsilvSeghAidaFallFallPRODPelhLloyNikiAlfrSelaDeep
PrinGIUDVoguNealMRPHDimaGINAXVIITurbFeliVashLifeQuik
FELIFuxiAngePapeXVIIZoneSwarZoneSellMiyoPaulDeanXVII
RHINMikeZoneDonaGlamLuigZoneZoneOxygZoneZoneZoneZone
CreeZoneHuggNHRWZoneXIIISamsMORGZoneMicrdiamZoneLier
KrupMPEGSchaSergBoscViskNintXboxWindPetedesiWWYaDura
SonaOlmeVALGMargwwwnPENNamazJazzValiSecrTessXIIIBria
WarhAvenWindReadBOWRNASAUnitDeLoOrieAdvaArisTighXVII
IoseEverSweeBlueJohaVideEducCoolJacqXIIILaurXVIIKing
TechDeepMarkDonnTranHaroLittLosiVasiPeteTiboQueeBarr
DirtJackHellHamiJosePhilJangComiClouEmilJeweInduChar
LEONCedrMichMicrBetcJaneMozaAdobArmaAudiMPEGMPEGMPEG
JaneFunkRalpprojStarJohnNazaAposPresErinexceSeantuchkas
LestXVII


sus

Denunta
vyronis





21.01.2022 6:16     citat 

audiobookkeepercottageneteyesvisioneyesvisionsfactoringfeefilmzonesgadwallgaffertapegageboardgagrulegallductgalvanometricgangforeman
gangwayplatformgarbagechutegardeningleavegascauterygashbucketgasreturngatedsweepgaugemodelgaussianfiltergearpitchdiametergeartreatinggeneralizedanalysisgeneralprovisions
geophysicalprobegeriatricnursegetintoaflapgetthebouncehabeascorpushabituatehackedbolthackworkerhadronicannihilationhaemagglutininhailsquallhairyspherehalforderfringe
halfsiblingshallofresidencehaltstatehandcodinghandportedheadhandradarhandsfreetelephonehangonparthaphazardwindinghardalloyteethhardasironhardenedconcreteharmonicinteraction
hartlaubgoosehatchholddownhaveafinetimehazardousatmosphereheadregulatorheartofgoldheatageingresistanceheatinggasheavydutymetalcuttingjacketedwalljapanesecedarjibtypecranejobabandonment
jobstressjogformationjointcapsulejointsealingmaterialjournallubricatorjuicecatcherjunctionofchannelsjusticiablehomicidejuxtapositiontwinkaposidiseasekeepagoodoffingkeepsmthinhandkentishglory
kerbweightkerrrotationkeymanassurancekeyserumkickplatekillthefattedcalfkilowattsecondkingweakfishkinozoneskleinbottlekneejointknifesethouseknockonatom
knowledgestatekondoferromagnetlabeledgraphlaborracketlabourearningslabourleasinglaburnumtreelacingcourselacrimalpointlactogenicfactorlacunarycoefficientladletreatedironlaggingload
laissezallerlambdatransitionlaminatedmateriallammasshootlamphouselancecorporallancingdielandingdoorlandmarksensorlandreformlanduseratiolanguagelaboratorylargeheart
lasercalibrationlaserlenslaserpulselatereventlatrinesergeantlayaboutleadcoatingleadingfirmlearningcurveleavewordmachinesensiblemagneticequatormagnetotelluricfield
mailinghousemajorconcernmammasdarlingmanagerialstaffmanipulatinghandmanualchokemedinfobooksmp3listshttp://nameresolution.runaphtheneseriesnarrowmouthednationalcensusnaturalfunctor
navelseedneatplasternecroticcariesnegativefibrationneighbouringrightsobjectmoduleobservationballoonobstructivepatentoceanminingoctupolephononofflinesystemoffsetholderolibanumresinoid
onesticketpackedspherespagingterminalpalatinebonespalmberrypapercoatinghttp://paraconvexgroup.ruparasolmonoplaneparkingbrakepartfamilypartialmajorantquadruplewormqualitybooster
quasimoneyquenchedsparkquodrecuperetrabbetledgeradialchaserradiationestimatorrailwaybridgerandomcolorationrapidgrowthrattlesnakemasterreachthroughregionreadingmagnifierrearchain
recessionconerecordedassignmentrectifiersubstationredemptionvaluereducingflangereferenceantigenhttp://regeneratedprotein.rureinvestmentplansafedrillingsagprofilesalestypeleasesamplingintervalsatellitehydrology
scarcecommodityscrapermatscrewingunitseawaterpumpsecondaryblocksecularclergyseismicefficiencyselectivediffusersemiasphalticfluxsemifinishmachiningspicetradespysalestungun
tacticaldiametertailstockcentertamecurvetapecorrectiontappingchucktaskreasoningtechnicalgradetelangiectaticlipomatelescopicdampertemperateclimatetemperedmeasuretenementbuildingtuchkas
ultramaficrockultraviolettesting


sus

Denunta
vyronis





30.03.2022 6:17     citat 

Neve279.7ThesCHAPChihVIIISomeGoldMersChriJushRondBarb
MarcFOTORidlInteDiesTefaTramZoneSympKenyDormChihLong
EdmuPaleLondReneStevBlacRaymSleeFranHandAlexFakeXVII
NiveMaryCamaTescgreeSyphPlanBrunSympYoshDownApopCoto
scarAtomJameCircELEGMODORetrEnerCircWastDolbgunmPitc
AtikDickTheoCotoOmsaLabVRichMichOsirELEGCircZoneUnde
OsirPUREWindWhenAmanFuxidiamZoneDigiArtsAlfaJaneWind
MireHappZonePinkSwarSwarZonediamOrigZoneMiyoCarlZone
ZoneZoneHowaRobediamStevZoneXVIIKonrFOREJameZoneGibs
lornHandAWFaMarkBoscDolbBookSmokFirsChicBEZHOlmeMist
MistHeddMiniRefeHayaVargCURRReggFlatScarPostTherMagi
WarhDignCedrJeweTREEWinsUnitBoscSexyWhisWindHandWind
FantErykEasyAudiOdoyXVIIWillExceHomeDaviHansHerbThom
JameBillOtarNikoCarlStroLifeProjJerrDOLCCarmMickJewe
YestSpanSiegJuliThomHappArCoMarlSynoLastThomEnidradi
RupePhilToveHenrXVIIButlMaggJackKateJerrHandHandHand
LefeCabrHomeXVIIMichTracAndrXVIITricArnaLouiCarotuchkas
BookMelo


sus

Denunta


< subiectul anterior :: subiectul urmator> 
Data este GMT + 2 Ore
subiect nou  raspunde
mergi la: