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19.04.2008 12:34   tatal meu  citat 

voi incepe prin a prezenta situatia mea:am 19 ani am o sora d 26 casatorita si la casa ei,mama a decedat acum 8 ani ...........problema mea e tati,nu stiu c sa mai fac....nu prea lucreaza si atunci cand o face i cheltuie p bautura si jocuri d noroc...........cand traia mami ea a avut aceleasi probleme cu el (mentionez ca atunci cand bea nu face deloc scandal,tin minte cand ma ducea cand eram f mica sa trag d manete)dar pana la urma la convins sa se duca la preot unde sa jurat si culmea ca sa si tinut d juramant vreo 2 ani pana a murit mami si apoi a mai fo bine tot cam 2 ani ,intre timp eu am aflat ca nu stiu exact cu cat timp inainte sa moara mami ei au divortat si sincer banuiesc ca dragostea lu tati sa stins d f mult timp in urma pt ca la nici un an dupa c a murit mami a decis sa aduca p o femeie in casa la noi(soramea nu mai statea cu noi) ei nu sau casatorit nici pana acuma,ma inteleg acceptabil cu ea...........deci problema e ca d vreo 2 ani tati a inceput iar sa bea si jocurile,pur si simplu cheltuie toti banii se ia in prumut d la toti minte tot felu doar ca sa faca rost d 10lei.tati si mama vitrega au impreuna o fetita d 6 ani,normal ca tin la ea,..............mama vitrega aduce toti banii in casa dar se descurca destul d greu ca tre sa plateasca caminul la fata are ceva rate la banci si nu mai stiu c si i greu o inteleg si cum abia ajung bani neo taiat deja curentu si apa.........pur si simplu parca p tati nul intere....cica acuma catva timp sio gasit d lucru nu mai stiu unde ca o fo mai departe si o dormit acolo timp d o saptamana si o vent acasa cu 50lei cica salar p sapt aia,inainte a inventat chestia ca se angajeaza la cva fabrica si a cerut bani d la noemi(mama vitrega)cat si d la soramea d analize d salopeta si din astea.................am incercat o mie d moduri sa fac sa fie bine,momentan in ultimu timp lam luat cu frumosu si cu calmu si am incercat sa discut cu el cva d genu:
-tati hai t rog sa vb eu nu t cert vreau sa vb frumos spunem t rog d c strici banii?nu vezi ca nu avem nici apa?d c faci astea?ai o fata care la anu mere la scoala,iti faci numa tie rau,u c crezi?eu vreau sa fie bine,dc nu ai bea si nu ai merge la jocuri c bine ar fi am avea macar stiicti necesa,spunemi d unde ti se trage astea?t rog nu mai fa ca oricum mo distrus ca o murit mami,hai sa mergem la un psiholog ca mai vb cu el poate t ajuta sau hai la preot ca ai vazut c bine o fo atunci cand nai baut ai avut d toate si tio fo bine
la care el imi raspunde ca stie ca nu face bine si ca nu vrea la psiholog sau la preot ca atunci cand so jurat mai demult o incalcat juramantu si ca i frica si zice ca vrea sa fie bine da ca nu se poate controla mai ales dupa c bea si yo i zic ca atunci sa nu bea ca numa rau i face si zice stiu stiu dar apoi trece o sapt si iara face din noi.............nu stiu c sa ma fac il iubesc enorm chiar dc face prosti si ma doare enorm sufletu cum il vad ca imbatraneste inainte d timp.c ma fac dc vreun excroc o sal puna sa semneze cva cand e beat(ca in ultimu timp tot ar vrea sa vindem apartamnetu sa ne dea partea mea si a soramii si sasi cumpere o garsoniera ca lui i destul)si pierdem apartamentu si ramane p strazi?c o sa faca?o sa caute prin gunoaie si tot o sa vina sa cerseasca cand d la yo cand d la soramea o sa doarma prin santuri?nu mai pot d durere numa cand ma gandeste cum ar putea ajunge(normal ca de cand face astea nu se mai intelege cu noemi si ea o zis ca dc vindem apaertamnetu ea no sa mai sta cu el).d cva timt stau la prietenu si la viitoarea socra si ma mai duc acasa sa mai dorm acolo ca pur si simplu mie dor d camera mea ,nu stiu cum sa explic,d tot c tine d casa aia ca d cand mama nascut nu neam mutat.si azi mam intalnit cu tati afara si mio cerut 1lei d 2 fire d tigari si iam dat 5lei si lam rugat sa nu mearga la jocuri si o zis ca bine dar normal ca nu stiu c so intamplat cu banii sper ca mo ascultat.......eu anu trecut am terminat liceul si d atunci tati tot timpu zice ca sa dau bani in casa ca ar trebui sa dea si soramea ca cati copii nus caresi ajuta parintii,eu am facut dupa liceu curs d manichiura(bani d la bunica din parte lu mami)si miam luat strictu necesar si am inceput sa fac aici la prietenu acasa,cliente am putine cas la inceput,nu pot inca sa lucru la salon ca acolo iti tre si casa d marcat carei vreo 4mil si sterilizator cu cuat carei vreo 5mil si nu pot inca iar soramea cum crede ca ar putea sal ajute?ea sta in chirie 150euro doar sotul ei lucre are bebe d 9 luni si chiar acuma o facut cum no fact ca o scos cat so putut bani din banca pt un apartament mic d 2 camere la care o sa plateasca 30 ani 240euro p luna plus ca tre sasi faca cva mobila ca nau deloc deci inca vreo 2mil rata p luna,nici nu vreau sa ma gandesc cum o sa se descurce

va rog poate voi gasiti vreo solutie ca eu nu mai stiu si sper ca nu vam plicty cam scris mult

in speranta ca voi gasi o cale
va pupa carla


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19.04.2008 12:50     citat 

Draga mea, ptr tatal tau poate sa fie un ajutor numai daca nu il mai ajutati, voi cu bani. Atita timp cit capata o sa continue sa beie, si sa joace. In momenul in care ii ajunge rahatul la git, va fi obligat sa reactioneze, sa se lase ajutat de un specialist. Si sa fim seriosi sora ta are familie, are destule obligatii, sau?
Iar tu ai dreptul sa i-ti traiesti viata ta! Iar el face ce vrea cu a lui. Stiu ca doare, dar nu il ajuta pe el cu nimica!!!


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22.04.2008 12:19     citat 

chestia e ca nui dam bani doar atunci iam dat deoarece am crezut ca sia revenit si se apuca d munca la o firma,el isi face rot d bani lucrand o zi sau doua p la oameni punand gresie sau zugravind sau se imprumuta d la tot felu d oameni

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