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revital_sharon_ofek
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revital: 28 ani, 8 luni
sharon: 26 ani
ofek: 20 ani, 9 luni
--: 12 ani, 4 luni
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15.01.2007 2:53 gelozia dintre frati |
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am o nepotica de frate
i s-a
ce e de facut ??????
voi v-ati confruntat cu astfel de probleme ?/
cum ati reactionat ??
ce manifestari au avut copii vostrii la venirea celui de al 2 copil
( diferenta de virsta intre frati este de 3 ani )
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agneska
Locatie: Franta dar acum GermaniaCopii
ANA Elisa: 18 ani, 11 luni
Emilie Lucie: 16 ani
am nascut deja!
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15.01.2007 4:23 |
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La mine intre fetite diferenta e tot de trei ani. si mie mi-a ea a frica sa nu-mi dezechilibrez psihic copila cea mare !
Auzisem si eu tot felul de povesti cu copii care nu-si acceptau deloc inca din prima zi surioara sau fratiorul. M-am interesat peste tot , carti, internet, la altii cum sa fac sa fie mai bine. Situatia ma stresa cu atat mai mult cu cat eu am fost copil unic la parinti si deci n-aveam nici cea mai mica idee de ce inseamna fratia.
Am avut noroc si nu am probleme. Ana o iubeste pe Emilie mult detot din prima zi si le pot lasa singure si o ora in sufragerie daca eu am treaba in bucatarie. Cum face asta mica o miscare , Ana vine si-mi da raportul chit ca e vorba doar de faptul ca Emilie si-a simplu incearca sa o impace. Cand e ora sa papam seara toti la masa, trage ea scaunelul relax cu bebe in el pana in bucatarie fiindca ea vrea ca Emilie sa fie cu noi in bucatarie la ora mesei si nu s-o lasam singurica in sufragrie!  In fine ii cere prezenta si intreaba de ea daca nu o vede sau nu stie unde e.
Dar zic eu ca asta a
Am cumparat multe carticele de varsta ei care arata cam cum se schimba lucrurile cand vine un bebe in casa sau pur si simplu ce face bebe in burtica, cum creste ; cum creste burta mamei si etc. In Franta si Germania sunt foarte multe carti ptr copii mici cu venirea unui fratior sau a pentru mutat tot cu o carte. si pentru gradinita la fel. Sigur depinde si de felul copilului de a pregtirea e importanta. Eu am inceput-o de la doi ani cu ea si bine-nteles pe intelesul ei. Daca simteam ca in ziua aia n-avea chef sa-mi vorbeasca de bebe o lasam in pace. a cu una din carti sa ma intrebe ce si cum de bebe  Emilie inca nu se nascuse dar era prezenta in capusorul ei inca decand burta incepuse sa se vada. si in plus numai ea si cu mine stiam ca in burtica aveam o surioara ci nu un fratior asta fiindca tati vroia sa afle supriza in ziua nasterii. 
Acum sper ca chestia asta (adica faptul ca Ana o accepta si o iubeste pe Emilie) sa dureze. Nu-mi fac iluzii fiindca stiu ca ziua cand se vor certa pe jucarii se apropie cu pasi mari ... Darrrr voi fi acolo ca situatia sa nu degenreze zic eu ...
a altceva bebelusul cand vine e mic si isi petrece timpul papnd si dormind. Mama in primele zile , luni tre sa faca cumva ca si cum bebe e important dar cel mare e la fel de important ca si inainte. Sa para cumva ca-l uita pe cel mic ( doar sa para) si sa accorde mult timp celui mare. Sa-i accorde multa afectiune si sa-i dea impresia ca El e mare si important si ca mami iubeste la fel de mult sau pur si simplu il iubeste ca si inainte ca nimik nu se schimba din iubirea ei fata de cel mare.
Eu personal am evitat intalnirile de tipul unde ai multe persoane care il admira pe bebelus iar pe cel mare il uita intr un colt si ii mai pun si intrebarea : Ei cum e sa ai o surioara, iti place ?"
de cate ori ne-am intalnit cu cineva care normal se uita sa vada bebelusul sau mergeam la bunici aveam grija ca Ana sa fie lipita de mine, practic intre picioarele mele, sa o mangai sa nu se simta nici un moment singura sau data la o parte.
In timp copilul pricepe apoi ca mami are mai putin timp ca bebe creste si cere multa atentie dar la inceput , in primele zile ,luni de la venirea bebelusului , cel mare tre sa simta ca tot el e piua intai in sufletul mamei. Atunci e copilul fragil si se indoieste cel mai mult.
Nu e usor, eu am avut in perioada aia si o casa noua de aranjat, cartoane de desfacut, si alergat peste tot cu treburi dar cand eram acasa odata ce treminam de dat biberonul si bebeul mic dormea eram numai a lui tati pe bebe, mai dadea si el biberoane si schimba scutece etc. 
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danny_ro
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Daniel - Alexandru: 19 ani, 4 luni
Rares - Matei: 15 ani, 11 luni
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16.01.2007 10:00 |
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inainte de a i-am spus ca o sai vina un frate si daca vrea sa se joace cu el si sa aibe grija de el ,de cand am nascut si am venit acasa de la maternitate Alex este foarte incantat daca il las il pupa toata ziua , nu pot sa fac nimic fare Alex de cate ori trebuie sai schimb pemparsul lui Rares Alex fuge ca sa-mi aduca alt pemparsi si il duce pe ce murdar la cos , eu ii las pe amandoi singuri in camera de cate ori Raresi incepe sa planga Alex fuge primul la carucior sal legene ii pune suzeta in gurita daca ia scapat ,eu am noroc ca cel mare il iubeste pe cel mic , sant zile cand Alex vrea sal ia pe Rares la gradinita cu el asa ca ne imbracam cu toti sal ducem pe Alex la gradinita ca sa nu fie scandal , nu ie bine sa faci diferente noi cand trebuie sai cumparam lui Rares ceva trebuie sai lom si lui Alex ceva  sant nulte lucruri care le facem impreuna. Alex stie ca este mai mare si ca trebie sa aibe grija de fratele lui mai mic 
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